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The Xenogender Definition: A xenogender in which one’s gender is or is like a star.
The Otherworldly Definition: An other-worldly, non-human gender which is beyond comprehension in earthly terms, as if it originated from beyond the Earth.
The Undefined Definition: A gender that cannot be defined no matter how many other terms are created.
Being a neutral gender.
Having the gender a star might.
Encompassing both masculine and feminine.
Being beyond masculine and feminine.
Feeling like a tiny universe.
Having a gender related to outer space and/or other worldliness.
Stargender was coined as "star gender" on January 27th, 2014 by Mars/Marty (se/syr/sym and he/his/him) at nbqt on Tumblr. After the initial post gained traction, se made a follow up post clarifying syr definition of stargender on March 27th, 2014.
In the years since, stargender has been an oft-mocked gender online. Despite that, there still are people who identify as stargender.
Gender Census by Cassian
These statistics come from the Gender Census by Cassian (they/them).
2013: Prior to stargender being coined.
2014: No survey this year.
2015: No stargender people out of 2,901 responses.
2016: 1 stargender person out of 3,055 responses.
2017: 1 stargender person out of 9,932 responses.
2018: 3 stargender people out of 11,278 responses.
2019: 7 stargender people out of 11,242 responses.
2020: 14 stargender people out of 24,576 responses.
2021: 32 stargender people out of 44,583 responses.
2022: 26 stargender people out of 39,765 responses.
2023: 33 stargender people out of 40,375 responses.
2024: 26 stargender people out of 48,645 responses.
2025: 28 stargender people and 1 person questioning stargender out of 43,096 responses.
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Everyone is cringe- but it's your responsibility to deal with your response to others.
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Not everything must be understood, known, or defined, and that's okay.
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Respect others, even if you don't understand them.
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Don't shame others for their identity. No one else is more acceptable to mock than others.
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Reach for the stars out of which you are made.